Wednesday, March 03, 2010

Update

Wow. It's been almost 3 years since I blogged, 8 years since the affair.

Every once in a while, a link gets passed along, and lots of new folks read the blog. It breaks my heart to think of all the people learning every day that their world has been turned upside down by infidelity.

I'm just checking back in to say, all is well. We have problems, but they are the same problems everyone has. I still have an occasional nightmare, and maybe I will until I die. I still cringe when I see a movie or hear a song that centers around a cheating spouse. I would not say it is over, because I don't think things like this are ever completely over, but now we are only dealing with scar tissue and not open wounds.

Good luck to you all, and God bless.

3 Comments:

At 9:08 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm so tired of having songs and movies about cheating partners throw me back into the moments of my own pain. I just want it to stop. It has been a year to the week and I just want to enjoy the everyday good times, but so many things remind me of the pain and disgust. How do I make it stop?

 
At 1:51 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

It will probably never stop. I am into my wife's affair twenty three years and four months and there are very few days its not on my mind. The trust issues and what is really going on behind those beautiful dark eyes of hers.

I just want you to know that you re never alone in your pain.

 
At 10:21 AM , Blogger Author said...

Amen. It can get better, but it's never over.

 

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