tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post210735213516132064..comments2023-04-06T05:25:06.269-04:00Comments on We survived an affair: Ch. 22 -- Who cares what people think?Authorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12602583738704599705noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post-33897023578911563412013-06-07T23:18:18.240-04:002013-06-07T23:18:18.240-04:00i have been in a 3 year relationship with my partn...i have been in a 3 year relationship with my partner i have 3 children to a previous relationship,a 8mnth old to him and am 7mnths pregnant with our 2nd child,we had the best relationship ever, communication and all.he dont drink or smoke just works so every tuesday night was his night out with the boys pllaying in pool comps. just 2mnths ago he cheated i found out through a txt on his fone.i was so hurt and felt used but he said he loved me and would never do it again.... that it was his 1st mistake to give him another chance to prove his love....a month later i find a number on his fone saved to a guys name buh the rung the number and bingo, another woman he had been txtin during the day and had deleted all txts and told her not to txt after a certain time because i was jelous...what do i do give him yet another chance and hurt like hell while doing it, i was online and i meet a man testimony helping people here and there, building love that last forever for husband and wife, so i email the man Dr Omonigho and i explain every thing that happen to him, Dr Omonigho told me not to worry that he is going to help my cast a love spell and our relationship will be refresh with love that will last forever, after the love spell my husband came home and said he will never cheat on my again that he will love and cherish only me, if you need his helping hand email: omonigholovetemple@gmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post-57651202562214265932007-07-06T22:57:00.000-04:002007-07-06T22:57:00.000-04:00I've just come across your blog and found it inspi...I've just come across your blog and found it inspiring. my partner started his 1st affair in late 2002 and this lasted over a year and then he had a 2nd short lived affair in 2006. I caught him out, he had a breakdown and the whole sorry tangled web hit me like a thunderbolt.<BR/><BR/>I raged and i am still in a lot of pain, i would love to reach the point where you can move on from thinking about the affairs to living in 'the moment'. I fear i cannot. He says that he has rediscovered god and that he is now a changed man. This comes from a liar so i don't really trust his word at the moment.<BR/><BR/>I know most of the details and i have confronted both women (married- 1 With kids) and i feel utterly distraught, both were aware of my existence and i really want them to know how i am suffering.<BR/><BR/>Although i considered a revenge affair with a safe-'ex', i dismissed the idea as it would not achieve anything.<BR/>For me as you said, my memories have been sullied and i feel like a fool for wanting him in my life. <BR/><BR/>Am i saying i need your love so much that i will accept your ill treatment and disrespect? Am i saying i am only worthy of love that is tarnished and will i be whole again?<BR/><BR/>I am torn between trying to find a fresh new relationship with not so much work and staying here and trying to build something better. Only problem now is that i am questioning my desires to such a great degree that nothing seem to be good enough anymore. in other words as he says what do i have to do to prove i love and want to be with you? I don't know, a grand gesture maybe or looking at me like he really wants me. I am glad you found your way through this.<BR/>You were both very fortunate to have made it this far.<BR/><BR/>I feel like i am going to be in recovery forever!!!Your son is lucky to have a mum and dad who worked hard to be together and show him the way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com