tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post114720518472907507..comments2023-04-06T05:25:06.269-04:00Comments on We survived an affair: Chapter 19 - You can't fix each otherAuthorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12602583738704599705noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post-68217733777470597242015-04-30T00:20:58.922-04:002015-04-30T00:20:58.922-04:00Thank you so much for sharing your story. It has b...Thank you so much for sharing your story. It has been three months since I discovered my husband had been having an affair for over a year. ( I discovered today that it really was at least three months longer than I previously thought.<br />As I read you blog, I find so much comfort knowing I am not crazy. I almost feel as if you are writing down my personal experiences (emotionally and phycologically speaking). I am overwhelmed just by reading your experience and get great comfort in knowing that I am normal and there is hope. When I discovered the affair my first instinct was to stay and fight, not knowing the intense pain and fight I had ahead of me. I want to quit, everyday, but your words give me strength.<br /><br />Again. Thank you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post-33546035615307756202014-04-23T12:34:10.703-04:002014-04-23T12:34:10.703-04:00If the traits that attracted you to your wife are ...If the traits that attracted you to your wife are now the triggers, I can see how that would be hard. Yes, I think time is the answer, with a lot of hard work on both sides for her to regain trust.Authorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12602583738704599705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post-72088719337823680712014-04-19T10:07:15.921-04:002014-04-19T10:07:15.921-04:00What happens when your wifes traits that attracted...What happens when your wifes traits that attracted you to her now becomes your tiggers? <br />:-( Do you need to let time do its thing first?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post-61676482412669211442013-02-12T10:52:13.334-05:002013-02-12T10:52:13.334-05:00Ah, the "on-line" affair. Some people sa...Ah, the "on-line" affair. Some people say that isn't a real affair, but you know better. An emotional affair can be just as devastating. Even if the relationship hasn't reached the boink stage, your spouse is still giving someone else what is exclusively yours.Authorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12602583738704599705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post-27083068161522595542013-02-11T13:01:21.766-05:002013-02-11T13:01:21.766-05:00Thank you for your blog!
I recently discovered my...Thank you for your blog!<br /><br />I recently discovered my husband of 10 years was having an online affair with a woman for the past three years.<br /><br />Though they've never met in person the intimacy of the exchanges both sexual and emotional is I think on par with a physical affair.<br /><br />We are working on rebuilding, are both committed but that doesn't make it easy.<br /><br />I'm so glad to see that someone else has felt what I'm feeling, has gotten past it and moved on.<br /><br />By God's grace!<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post-1148078787098047262006-05-19T18:46:00.000-04:002006-05-19T18:46:00.000-04:00In one of your earlier posts you said that you hav...In one of your earlier posts you said that you have now found out that your wife has had other men in her life pretty much throughout the marriage. Has your wife now come to terms with the fact that this is probably one of the reasons that your marriage was in trouble? <BR/><BR/>I am sure that you were able to sense that there was not a full commitment and you probably reacted accordingly. Do you think this caused you to pull back from the marriage? Have you ever discussed this?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17403683.post-1147280208488655302006-05-10T12:56:00.000-04:002006-05-10T12:56:00.000-04:00You are a big hearted and strong person :) For me,...You are a big hearted and strong person :) For me, many times, one thing that's difficult to face is ourselves. Cause we can escape from other people, but we cant escape from ourselves. I pray that things are going strong on ur side :)<BR/><BR/>Cheers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com