Still Here . . .
I'm continually amazed at the number of people who stumble across this blog, although I have not updated it in a long time. You should see the stats. Most hits come in the wee hours of the morning as some heart-broken person who just discovered his wife, or her husband, had an affair, and they are looking for something -- anything -- to help them understand what they are feeling. They want to know they are not alone.
They are not alone. You are not alone. No, I don't update, because I really have no more to say. But I do try to keep up with comments, and I sporadically check the email address associated with this blog.
So if you are staring at your laptop at 3:00 a.m., unable to sleep because you're hurting more than you have ever hurt in your life, wondering how you are ever going to make it through work tomorrow, much less the the next year . . . That was me once. It was about 12 years ago I think. I don't even remember anymore.
But it does get better. And you are not alone.